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If you have not already twigged, the guys tend to get given a lot of the boring jobs such as booking the church, paying the legal fees and taking out wedding insurance. So you might want to check out this latest bit of legislation.

As from 1st October 2008 the new Church of England Marriage Measure comes into effect which means you don't have to live in a parish to get married in the church there. The Church of England’s network of 16,000 churches, ancient or modern, intimate or grand, simple or spectacular, are now offering a 'wider wedding welcome' than at any time in the Church’s history.

Existing law establishes a right for a couple to marry in the Church of England in the parish church where one or both of them live, whether they are baptised or not, and whether they are churchgoers are not. To marry in any other parish requires a special licence or six months of regular attendance followed by entry on the local church electoral roll. But new laws, initiated by the Church of England and now approved by Parliament, will add to this right of residency, making it just as easy for couples to marry in a church where they have a family or other special connection, even if they don’t live there.

The General Synod decided that the existing laws were too restrictive in a mobile society and took the initiative to change them last July. Synod wanted churches all over England to be free to celebrate more weddings and support more marriages. The changes will mean an engaged couple are welcome to be married in church in a parish if just one of these applies:

•one of them was baptised or prepared for confirmation in the parish
•one of them has ever lived in the parish for six months or more
•one of them has at any time regularly attended public worship in the parish for six months or more
•one of their parents has lived in the parish for six months or more in their child’s lifetime
•one of their parents has regularly attended public worship there for six months or more in their child’s lifetime
•their parents or grandparents were married in the parish
(All of these refer to Church of England services)

Chris Varnom and Emma Price are just one couple who have been watching closely when the new law will take effect. They live in High Wycombe but plan to marry 200 miles away at Christ Church Ainsworth in Bolton, where Chris grew up and where his parents were married and still live. Emma said:

"Because we haven’t lived in High Wycombe for long, home – his or mine – was always where we wanted to marry. It’s just fantastic news that now we can do that more easily."

The Bishop of St Edmundsbury and Ipswich, the Rt Revd Nigel Stock, who was a member of the group that steered the Marriage Measure through the General Synod, welcomed the news that couples and churches could begin to put new plans in place for a wedding after 1st October: “Once the new Measure comes into effect I really do hope that we will be welcoming many more people for marriage in Church. It is already our privilege to celebrate the weddings of 57,000 couples every year and of course, welcome their guests to the occasion. Research does show that many more people would like to marry in church than actually do. I hope that this new law will make it much easier for clergy to say “yes” to couples when they first enquire.”

To find out more click here to read the link on the Church of England website.

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