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Posting Time: 31 Jan 2009 at 10:16PM  Reply with quote   Edit this post   Delete this post

Hi Sophie. We moved from Surrey to Norfolk in October. Like you, we both had to get jobs. Dont know what sort of job you want but I would advise looking at the Eastern Daily Press website. It's really good and lots of jobs. I am in NHS. They have a website for jobs called NHS Jobs. If you want volunteer work, you could try the hospitals. I know I remember seeing somewhere that they were looking for people. If you are in a village, they probably have a parish council which I feel sure would love someone new to get involved. Hope this helps a little.
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Posting Time: 10 Feb 2009 at 11:56AM  Reply with quote   Edit this post   Delete this post

thanks again for all your advice, i realised i havent checked on here for so long!

i will look at the human websites, alex and wendy, i am always looking for jobs here! its so hard when i have no confidence! i am going too lok into volunteering though. thanks.
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mrssheriff2b, 28 Jan 2009 at 5:03PM said:

Edited by mrssheriff2b, 28 Jan 2009 at 05:05PM:

hi hun

ive suffered with depression since i was 12, i still have it now and to me it sounds like depression i had to see 4 diffrent doctors before one of them believed me some doctors dont like telling ppl their depressed because then they mite have to prescribe anti-depressants which there tryin 2 cut down on.

anyway to get to the point i went to human givens its £50 a session but it can last all day and you may only need one session (i had two and i felt a million times better) they can help you with anything! they are brillant, they teach you to lock away your problems and forget them it sounds hard to believe but it works so well, and you dont actually have to them them everything (the things you lock away you think about in your mind or you can say them out loud)

please look into it i no its an expense but its worth it to give you your life back and help you.

thay can alos help with confidence hope this helps xxxx

this is some infromation of there website
A friendly, accessible and human approach. The therapist will:

Take as few sessions as possible.
Help you feel hopeful of a postive resolution.
Increase your self confidence and independence.
Will not encourage unnecessary personal archaeology.
Separate the person from the problem.
Offer advice if needed and requested.
Understand depression and how to lift it - as fast as possible.
Offer immediate help with anxiety, including trauma or fear.
Be supportive when difficult feelings emerge.
Help develop social skills if needed.
Help draw on own resources.
Consider the effects on people close to you.
Teach relaxation techniques.
Help you find solutions.
Encourage you to challenge unhelpful beliefs and thinking styles.
Use clear English.
Avoid complexity.
May set tasks.
Fit the therapy to the person, not the other way round

What can we help with?

RESOLVING Conflict
LIFTING Depression
STOPPING Phobias
RELIEVING Pain
CONTROL Anger
LEARN to Relax
LESSEN Stress
REDUCE Anxiety
ELIMINATE Panic Attacks
INCREASE self confidence
LOWER emotional arousal
whats the website, i cant find it!
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Posting Time: 10 Feb 2009 at 1:27PM  Reply with quote   Edit this post   Delete this post

Think this is what you are looking for:

Human givens organisation
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thats the website kikrychic thanks x
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Wave Sophie, what sort of job are you looking for? What area? You can message me on face book. If I can help, I will. My family live here so I can ask them also.
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Posting Time: 16 Feb 2009 at 4:57PM  Reply with quote   Edit this post   Delete this post

hi, thanks for your help again ladies!

i dont know what sort of job im looking for, lol! id like to try something new i just dont know what! im applying for all sorts at the minute and not getting anywhere!

things are bad between me and h2b at the mo anyway, having no money to do anything, go anywhere or buy anything we want is awful, its the reason we cancelled our wedding before & we had a big row about things last night!

been busy recently anyway, h2bs mum had a hip op and weve been down there a lot! but now we are back hopefully things can get sorted!

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