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selina4shaun070707
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Posting Time: 13 May 2008 at 11:36PM

hey all its been 6 weeks and 1 day since my hubby left for the gulf and im missing him like crazy im going out more then ever he must think im doing something but im not but soon as i get a min to my self im just crying so have to go out witch is not normally me when hes away!

im finding it so hard dont help with the navy messing us around when hes ment to be coming home and when hes coming out ect and then all my treatment had to stop for our baby! it just feels like my whole world caves in any ideas what will get me through the next 6 months???? takecare lv selinaxxxx

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Posting Time: 14 May 2008 at 8:22AM

hi selina first of all big Have a Cuddle

to you i know exactly how you feel were waiting to see if dave is being posted in afganistan and im totally Sweary

shitting myself if thats the case we will definately be getting married earlier anyway hun keep your chin up i know its hard we will have to meet up soon as im not far from you we could go ice skating or something Big Grin

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MrsReed
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Posting Time: 14 May 2008 at 9:13AM

Hey Selina a big Have a Cuddle

to you. I really dont know what to suggest as i've never been away from h2b for that long. Why not take up a hobby like going to the gym or a dance class to take your mind of things until he's back then when he comes home you can show him what you've learnt Smiles

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Posting Time: 14 May 2008 at 9:19AM

thinking about you too hunny, I cant image being apart from H2B for that long most we ever had was a 3 day stag weekend Huh?

but good idea taking up a class or something keep you busy and something to show him when he comes home Dance

My FBIL goes away a fair bit abroad with his work and my FSIL does crafting (she is doing my invitations etc) think that keeps her busy too. On Cloud Nine

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selina4shaun070707
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Posting Time: 14 May 2008 at 1:46PM

hey all thanks kate! yeh we should!

i would love to learn how to ball room dance but its hard as we are so shourt on cash its unreal! my work are messing me about and give me diffrent shifts ever week if any at all so i cant say every thurs night ill be free as i dont know till last min! also with not having the money i cant affiord to get into debt or anything as no money to pay it off would help if the stupied navy will pay us right! i have a gym in my house that i go to sometimes but hate doing things on my own when hes away always need to be with people if you get what i mean!! but thanks for all the hugs and the support and good ideas i really need it at the mo! thanks again takecare lv selinaxxxxx

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Posting Time: 14 May 2008 at 2:09PM

Hey Selina have you mentioned before that you did hairdressing?? Could you not become a mobile hairdresser? They earn quite good money & if you go to vistaprint you could get some free business cards all you pay is the postage.

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jamesanddiane
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Posting Time: 14 May 2008 at 8:24PM

You need to throw yourself into something...what about learning a new skill...did you qualify as a hairdresser...maybe you could do that, or learn floristy. Card making seems to keep a lot a people busy, you could make wedding invitations and advertise them on WP!

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Posting Time: 15 May 2008 at 10:03AM

hi selina

like the other girls said, you definately need a project. they dont always have to cost a lot of money. if you go down to hobbycraft there are loads of kits for making all sorts of things and some are quite cheap.

you could make something for shaun! and it gives you a real sense of acheivement when you complete something that you have made all by youself.

or if making things isn't your thing, how about writing? you could write your memories down since you met shaun and i bet he would enjoy reading it when he comes home.

you could write how much you miss him when you are feeling down, and also write in it how much you love him when you are happy. just treat youself to a nice posh notebook.

it will be an interesting thing to share with your kids when you are older too

keep your chin up hun xx

selina4shaun070707
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Posting Time: 15 May 2008 at 11:34AM

hey girls thanks for trying really hard to makeme smile again! i like the idea of writing everything dow i might do that when i get a mo? hairdressing i love but i cant earn a income off being mobile while under this roof as stops my dads benfits ect as he cant work so wont be earning anything as money will go to him insted! but thanks ive taken all those into consideration for future!! takecare lvselinaxxxx

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